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Single, Not Sorry” soy candle in black glass vessel with pink label, hand-poured by Say it With Wax, styled with flowers on white surface.

Single, Not Sorry – Empowerment Breakup Candle

£22.00
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Reliable shipping

Flexible returns

☞ Details

Hand-poured soy candle – 220g – Up to 40 hours burn time

Who says being single isn’t a vibe? You’re thriving, you’re glowing, and you’re definitely not crying in the club. “Single, Not Sorry” is the candle that says: yes, I’m solo, and no, I don’t need your opinion about it.

Perfect for celebrating freedom, independence, and your own damn company, this cheeky candle is customisable in scent and full of sass. Whether you’re newly single or just happily unbothered, it’s your glow-up in a jar.


✨ Why you’ll love it:

  • Custom scent options to match your solo era energy

  • 220g soy wax for a clean, even burn (no toxic paraffin, no toxic exes)

  • Minimalist black glass jar for high vibes, low effort interiors

  • Hand-poured in small batches because you're not mass-produced and neither are we

  • Burn time: 35–40 hours – that's a full season of red flags dodged


💡 Gifting this?

Iconic for:

  • Post-breakup pamper gifts

  • Anti-Valentine’s care packs

  • Galentine’s Day bundles

  • Just treating yourself, obviously


Personalised with the name on the front, your fragrance of choice inside — and absolutely zero regrets.

Light it up and toast to your own damn happiness.

✨ Materials & Candle Care

Every Say it With Wax candle is lovingly hand-poured in Surrey using:

  • 100% soy wax – clean-burning, cruelty-free, and totally vegan
  • Premium fragrance oils – because basic smells are banned here
  • Natural cotton wicks – no nasties, just a beautiful, even burn
  • 30cl matte black glass jars – sleek, moody, and totally gift-worthy
  • Ash wooden lids – to keep the sass sealed in

Each candle holds 220g of wax, giving you a burn time of 35–40 hours (depending on how nicely you treat it 😉).

Candle Care Tips:

  • Let the wax pool fully on the first burn, no tunnelling on our watch!
  • Trim the wick to 5mm before each light for a cleaner flame.
  • Keep away from pets, kids, and exes.
  • Never burn for more than 4 hours at a time. Your candle deserves a break too.

Treat it right, and it’ll keep the vibes (and the fragrance) going strong.

📦 Shipping + Returns

Shipping:

We hand-pour and pack each candle with love (and a healthy dose of sarcasm) from our little HQ in Surrey, UK. Orders are usually dispatched within 2–3 working days—because good things take time, but not that much time.

  • UK shipping from £3.95
  • Free shipping on orders over £40
  • Tracked delivery options available for peace of mind (and nosey tracking)

Returns:

Changed your mind? We get it—sometimes love fades. If your candle isn’t quite what you expected, you’ve got 14 days to let us know.

To be eligible for a return:

  • It must be unused and in its original packaging (sniffing is fine, lighting is not)
  • Email us at sayitwithwaxshop@gmail.com with your order number and reason for return
  • Return postage is on you unless your item arrived damaged or faulty

Smells funny in a bad way?

If your candle arrived a bit worse for wear, snap a photo and drop us a message. We’ll make it right quicker than you can say “burn, baby, burn”.

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